There are people you meet for a season, a reason or a lifetime so the saying goes. So it's especially great to know how the the dynamics of your relationship works and what are the underlying currents that drive those relationships and why? These questions can come up with siblings, friends, acquaintances and also close loved ones but also with yourself. I know that sounds a little strange, but it's true we are all on a path of discovering who and what we are all about, on a continual basis with ourselves as well as with and through each other. That's, in essence what I think we are doing here on earth. Some days we know ourselves and each other better than others, or some moments for that matter and it is the same for everyone. As Neale Donald Walsh always says, the goal is to "be the best possible version of yourself" or something to that effect. Since we are always faced with choices on how to react or act. Whether to take things personally or not, solve a problem or not and on and on it goes.
As always, for every action there is always going to be either an equal or opposite reaction, but the choice is always going to be yours whether you take action or not. The main key to moving forward in the best possible direction and to figure out which one that is, is to move forward while knowing that there is always going to be many other possibilities and avenues and that nothing is set in stone. Not even the most difficult situation, circumstance or outcome.
So as difficulties arise, so do solutions and where none is found. Then it's going to be up to you to find them. So if your having a difficulty with something, it could be found in a transit chart with say the moon conjunct Pluto or Chiron, as I have been and am experiencing. If the issue or maybe the passion you are feeling ;) is with a person, I would look to a synastry chart to see the aspects with both parties. If you just want to learn more about your self, as I said. Then you can look at both the natal and transit charts together in unison.
I use astro.com for all these discoveries and I have found astro sage to be very helpful toward the eastern astrology, if this kind of stuff is of interest to you as well.
Which I'm sure it is if your reading this, so enjoy the process of self discovery no matter what arises. It's all ultimately happening for your own growth and development and if you have any questions about the charts you find, just leave a comment here and I will try and help if I can.